I need to hear from big city players if you don’t mind.

xxxWhoHurtYouxxx · 2026-05-25T04:41:50+00:00

Yes sir even if the traffic isn't as high. Usually the prettiest in the town.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-25T08:26:18+00:00

Bigger cities typically easier in my view. Just a LOT more options, more open minded women. More younger women, more people to swipe on. And more anonymity when cold approaching.

But New York city is not a normal big city. You're competing against a LOT of millionaires.

There are big cities, and then there are big cities that are filled with rich men. New York is a very unique case that attracts rich men from all over the world. If you get super rich anywhere in the world, chances are you may want to move to New York.

This causes women to be quite used to men with money. And if you don't have it, tough luck. It's very similar in Dubai.

In general, I would only try to game in such places (New York, Dubai) if you have good money. Because if not, well - too bad. But you will seem a lot broker than you actually are just by comparison.

Recommend moving to other large cities where the male competition is less wealthy.

Zillah345 · 2026-05-25T17:56:40+00:00

Boston advice pls and thank you

abcsofattraction · 2026-05-26T20:08:48+00:00

New York is a target rich environment for both night and daygame as well as a gender ratio that favors men. Probably one of the easier cities to pull given the vast demographics of locals, tourists, models and wide ethnic backgrounds.

Here’s me and a student pulling two college girls in New York: https://youtu.be/qNc04xPDnZA

Title	I need to hear from big city players if you don’t mind.
Author	asdf714
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	May 25, 2026 4:23 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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