Red Pill Thought Megathread

Spare_Law3148 · 2026-07-20T02:51:35+00:00

I think that the current mainstream manosphere and red pill culture is filled with incels who’ve not had any dating experience. Ive noticed in my recent experiences and maybe its just me but i used to think the world was quite black and white. For example LTRs especially are so in the gray and nuanced and fun to be in and while you do make bad choices in who you choose to be in an LTR with imo learning from these experiences is far more important but youll find these incels hating on men for being in LTRs and calling them “cucks” simply for committing. My point is do what you want but realise the world is not black and white and its better to experience an learn than be infuenced by the content these incels make online but again do what you want and most importantly LEARN. What do you all think?

21redman · 2026-07-20T03:19:57+00:00

I struggle with the push pull of long term life goals like starting a family and the ultimate freedom to do whatever you want

Is it possible to have a wife or life partner that will bear children and let you fuck off for a few days ot doesn't throw a fit if you want or buy that project car? Is it a frame issue to just tell the woman "hey, im gonna do whatever i want and if you don't like it, there's the door"

thats how I treated my last relationship and she imploded and cause alot of problems for me. Maybe i held frame too well? She would ask for marriage and I would tell her the insane position that would put me in. I literally can't tell you NO anymore because you can crippled me financially.

It seems like marriage/having kids is the ultimate sacrifice but is it a PSYOP to be a slave to the 9-5?

If I plan to not have a family or kids I could rush to pay off a slice of real estate and then spend the rest of my days working 2-3 days part time and lifting if I have kids then I'm trapped in the rat race.

It seems like it was never presented as an option by my boomer parrents. "Get a good job" "invest" "make babies"

But never "travel" "dont get married" "protect your autonomy"

Brutal13 · 2026-07-19T16:38:24+00:00

I realized that if you want to have a good and healthy circle you got to maintain standards of communication.

If someone is not replying within 12h it is a huge question if you need them in your circle.

If someone is constantly late with the replies it is a message itself.

Moreover, is someone left you “unread” it could be a sign that this person is hostile. In current world when everyone is glued to their phones it is kinda rude

Title	Red Pill Thought Megathread
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Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	July 19, 2026 4:01 PM UTC (1 week ago)
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