GF of 3 years doesn't invite me to her social events and doesn't come to my social events

NazoXIII · 2016-01-04T21:26:51+00:00

Wait... hold up. Girlfriend of 3 Years and You've been living together for 3 Years!? I feel for you brother.

I'm gonna be brutally honest with you, it is VERY likely that you utterly repulse her, the way I see it, if you've been together for 3 years, and living together the entire time, she probably sees you as so far under her thumb she can't be bothered to respect you, and your 6 months of TRP is completely lost on her. Her NEVER inviting you to any of her events and flaking on yours is a clear relationship ending deal breaker. She's is very likely fucking someone else and taking them in your stead, or going out with her friends, and looking for someone to fuck. Regardless, you are on your way out, and I can't even recommend you running Dread. Best way to deal with it, I'd go about getting some boxes from your local grocer, and either box all of her shit or yours, there probably isn't any recovery in this matter.

DoubleTappp · 2016-01-04T06:58:54+00:00

This train wreck is only smoldering....because the crash happened a long time ago.

3rt41 · 2016-01-04T08:35:29+00:00

Move on to another relationship, this one is in the toxic territory.

drallcom3 · 2016-01-04T16:15:40+00:00

1) she is ashamed of my presence. 2) she wants to flirt with someone

Probably the second.

If you want to you can stop inviting her to events. Go on your own and make sure to have a good time. Don't tell her about if afterwards. Also check your SMV. Maybe your gf only sees you as the stupid provider.

redpillerizer · 2016-01-04T21:23:11+00:00

Thanks for your replies everyone for confirming my suspicion. I'm treating this as a major red flag. Would it be wise to ask/confront her about it? Perhaps it would lead to hamstring or trickle truth which would shed light on this thing. Or would that make me look to clingy?

MrGoodStuff05 · 2016-01-04T01:35:03+00:00

Definitely worrisome. I've found out that around the 2-3 year mark women tend to become bored of the relationship regardless of how good you're treating her.

I can't really explain to you WHY she's doing this, but I can try to tell you how to fix it. You say she's not inviting you to events she goes to, like that party, then I suggest on the days she does that you go out and do something on your own. Bonus point if there are girls involved in this activity you do, and extra bonus points if you call her while at this event and let her hear girls voices in the background. Don't tell her who these girls are though.

And to get her to hang out with you, just do fun things. Maybe she gets bored when she's out with you? Try doing fun stuff she likes without her, and again invite other girls, and tell her how amazing it was and how funny Jessica is and how much she loved the activity you guys did. Next time she might want to join you.

Title	GF of 3 years doesn't invite me to her social events and doesn't come to my social events
Author	redpillerizer
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	January 4, 2016 1:08 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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