I was chatting up this girl on Tinder, we made a date for Monday but kept chatting over Snapchat on Saturday. The conversation turned a little playfully sexual and she mentioned that she gets turned on by "the power dynamics involved in spanking". This girl sounds fun. We throw around the idea of moving our date earlier and decide on Sunday.

I text her on Sunday and she says she can meet at 2:30. She then postpones to 3:00. She tells me she's "moving like a snail today" and says she will text me when she's ready. I've been getting some shit done at the house while waiting, but run out of things to do. I tell her I'm leaving to run some errands and text me when she is ready to go. She responds that she has to go to a church service that evening and will be down to hang out after. I'm starting to seriously question her at this point and set up a date with another girl for the same time.

I ignore my phone for the next few hours, go on date with other girl, we fuck, things are good. I check my phone when she leaves and original girl had texted saying some church friends wanted to hang out downtown. I ignore this and a couple other messages. She tries referring back to a joke we made the previous day and I give a short "yeah" response. No other communication since.

I'm conflicted about how to proceed with this girl. On one hand she showed no respect for my time, which I won't tolerate. On the other hand, she's younger and hotter (and maybe kinkier) than any of my other plates and seems DTF. The disrespect came off more as airheadedness and laziness than intentional disrespect, so I'm inclined to give her one free pass, but somehow communicate that I won't tolerate that behavior in the future.

I know a hard reprimand over text isn't going to be effective because she has a hundred other guys lined up and I want to keep the fuck on the table between us. I'm inclined to soft-next her for a week or two then hit her up again. Thoughts from more experienced Red Pillers?