i have been approaching girls at the club and have had some positive outcomes with that. The thing is that o have taken these girls out for dates as well, after one night of making out and oral sex but this is what happened. I was interested in plating a girl so i invited her to a party at a bar i am comfortable in. She told me that she thought it was a date and was surprised to see my friends there as well. My friend, who is a virgin starts bad mouthing me as he is desperate as fuck and the girl, who was ready to go to the club with me all by herself, tells me that my friend told her not to trust me anymore as she ws meeting me for the second time. Later that evening, they hook up and now both of them are in a relationship, two months later. She went to the extent of bad mouthing me and telling my friend that i was really creepy for approaching her at the club and she didnt like that at all. She also told him that she would never ever dream to go out with me and she went out with me once as a favour to me as i was nice to her, nonetheless, creepy and unclassy as it was 4 am in the morning when we had the chat. The fact is that she was the one who approached me at the club and also enquired if i was getting a taxi and she could join. I am pretty pissed off as events like these have been happening a lot. I think that it is just an american thing to approach women you dont know at clubs or at university but the women in europe, even after giving positive signals at first, have all called it creepy and unclassy. This has stopped me from approaching and talking to any random women here but i am at a total loss of avenues. I am not the kind of guy who would get matches on tinder etc, but manage to thrive at parties, to which i havent gone in 3 months. Meanwhile, all my close friends have girlfriends whom they met in class but all the women in class know me quite well and would either treat me as an orbitter or a friend. I have improved tremendously, physically and socially in one year but the women in class see me in the same light. what can i do?