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Hi guys, I need your honest brother opinions.

I have a plate of about 1 year and more. 6 months ago, this girl kept asking for exclusivity (a long term relationship) and I told her that I wasn't looking for anything serious at the moment, she understood and stayed with me anyway. We saw each other regularly. Recently, there was a big party, she and I attended. She was with her friends, I was with mine. During the party I didn't give her any attention, I didn't care about her, she kept texting me to go for a drink or to hang out. Instead I was flirting with the other girls. A month or two after that party, one night at my house, after much thought, I realized that I was fine with this girl and would like to go further. When I told her this, she answered that before the so-called party she would have liked to, but that because of my behavior that night, that is to say flirting with lots of girls and ignoring her, she was insecure and she said that she had a mental block to the relationship due to the fact that in her last relationship she was cheated on (3 years ago).

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I have the impression that she is telling me nonsense. Despite the fact that she didn't like it, we still see each other regularly and she keeps saying that I'm giving her the best sex of her life. She is not seeing anyone else but me, it must be a year.

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I want your honest opinion, is this story over or can I insist? I think it's a shame to lose, this girl who a potential relationship due to one night. Does she find me less attractive? Have I changed?

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TDLR : She catched feelz first, i denied her. I catched feelz 8 month after, she denied me, move on or insist