TLDR; I've garnered the tool box that is Red Pill, but forced to have it rust from circumstances and can't apply them to women.

Context, 21, virgin, graduating this semester with an Associates andd moving to a 4 year soon.

I talked about sex to my family and they said it's fine to have a GF, but introduce her and shit. Be formal. And you know how Red pill feels about commitment. Parents don't want flocks of women passing in and out like a whore house. Even though that's what I'd prefer.

Anyways, this barrier of knowing I won't be getting anywhere is fucking up my ability to just be flirty, as if a mental block is placed on my mind saying no, don't flirt, you'll only frustrate yourself in the end. Or go out and cold approach someone. I've been given flat out offers for sex by women in covert manners and this' prior to Red Pill.

Any advice on what to do? I'm glad that I'm young and can cultivate a great life and build my net worth. Where I can avoid the pitfalls of marriage and bullshit. But since I'm young, I feel the need to prove I'm a high value man and can get laid whenever I want. This is validation seeking and it's strengthening this loop of insecurity for all women to see.

EDIT: Forgot to mention, live in one of the richest county in the USA. Minimum wage isn't enough for basic essentials for me to move out.