I have no problem attracting baddies or the party girl but when it comes to the "good" nerdy types most seem to test the waters with me and ask stuff like if I'm a player or a drug dealer. Thing is I'm not even a ghetto guy like i dont even do drugs but I guess I look the part but they always seem to become disinterested once we talk. Naturally with these kind of girls I take them less seriously and I tend to use alot of amused mastery or treat them playfully like a child could that be affecting how they perceive me and see it as immature? This kind of game works well with baddie/hood girls but backfires horribly with the nerdy ones. How can I recalibrate and adjust my frame?