Let's talk about rape.

stopsayingfaggot · 2013-03-18T06:51:57+00:00

Title seems misleading. You're not asking to talk about rape, you're asking to talk about rape fantasies, and healthy ways of expressing those fantasies that aren't rape. I think you'll find support in the BDSM community, and even within sex-positive feminism if that works for you.

2013-03-18T13:56:14+00:00

Troll thread.

2013-03-18T06:10:46+00:00

Rape is, iirc, the number one sexual fantasy for women, and if not number 1 within the top 5.

Just look at the success of 50 shades of gray which dances across the line a lot.

And yes, many, many, many men want to be dominated sexually. And yes, the BDSM community is growing leaps and bounds.

All that said, even if one fantasizes about rape, it's not an invite to rape or be raped.

AeneaLamia · 2013-03-18T05:37:07+00:00

Well, I don't have rape fantasies.

But I do think as long as something 'bad' remains solely in your head (not played out in reality), or is enacted between consenting parties, there should be nothing wrong with it.

In the BDSM community quite a lot of situations I think you'd be talking about aren't viewed harshly and are widely accepted.

rightsbot · 2013-03-18T05:16:18+00:00

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C0CKPUNCHER · 2013-03-18T06:13:23+00:00

As far as I know their are more masochists than sadists.

Also this seems like a troll thread.

I've never known a sadist, I'm not a sadist, I've known masochists.

IHaveAnOpinion1 · 2013-03-18T06:38:05+00:00

I feel for you man. The truth is just to be honest. I usually break it in slowly by talking about fetishes, use hers to gauge when to reveal yours. If her fantasies are relatively vanilla wait longer to reveal yours.

I usually start with my costume fetish and escalate to rape fantasy. Many women are into it if you present it in the right time and in the right way. Don't feel ashamed, it's a common fantasy and as long as both parties are consenting there is nothing wrong with it. Be proud that you know what you want sexually, most people don't/aren't willing to admit it.

Meet people locally that share your interests and get their perspective. fetlife.com

Title	Let's talk about rape.
Author	Nerd_Destroyer
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	March 18, 2013 5:14 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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