Girlfriend dreams of me cheating or leaving.

mksu · 2016-02-21T22:38:48+00:00

Some dread is good, but make sure you give her comfort, especially in a LTR.

animalpoo · 2016-02-22T03:13:34+00:00

Thought, is she playing sincere to gauge your reaction ? I.e. Fabricating the experience to judge your commitment and boundaries of the relationship.

The foundations for nightmares like this come from early attachment and insecurities. If she's reliant on you for her happiness, her biggest motivation in life will be the fear of loosing you. This will be played out in her dreams. It will actively be her main focus in everyday life as she desperately tries to avoid loosing you.

Guillz · 2016-02-21T22:15:25+00:00

it means shes probably fucking unstable and you should jump ship before youre sucked too deep into it.

Tho i guess its good it the sense that she feels youre too good for her and fears of loosing you, but then again, depends on context and her reaction to such dreams

[deleted] · 2016-02-22T00:42:55+00:00

Dreams do come true.

TheRedStoic · 2016-02-22T05:00:55+00:00

You've (intentionally or not) done one or more of the following.

overdread
failed too many comfort tests
failed to notice a pathological condition of insecurity
failed to notice a massive amount of guilt she's projecting.

I wouldn't really worry about that last one. Just check your comfort and dish slightly more out if it's lacking.

Title	Girlfriend dreams of me cheating or leaving.
Author	tomtopah
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	February 21, 2016 9:32 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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