Going out alone?

BudapestPUA · 2016-02-28T20:33:29+00:00

It's a good excersize to get out of your comfort zone. You can get results but it's time consuming, you'll have lots of nights where you are going home empty handed.

Or you can just chat up any girls while you are out with your pussy friends. That's what I'm doing, since my friends are also pussies.

Throwaway244555 · 2016-02-28T20:30:07+00:00

It never hurts to try.

cazzah123 · 2016-02-28T22:25:06+00:00

I want to try this but at the moment I'm a big enough of a pussy even with other people that I think it would utterly destroy any confidence I have.

I can imagine it would be a horrible night for me, stuck oin my head, chat to no one really, end up getting an early bus home, beating myself up the entire way.

I think you need some experience under your belt before you try going out solo.

Josewasframed · 2016-02-28T22:26:29+00:00

Yeah going out alone is fine.

But why don't you just go out with your friends and go talk to the girls while you're there. Maybe wing your friends.

Sounds like they're nervous about approaching women.

frerri · 2016-02-29T00:03:04+00:00

I went out alone ALOT a year ago. It was really fun and awesome in everyway! The more I did it the more fun I had.

The thing is, what my "friends" ever added to going out was a pillar of comfort to lean on once you get a dull in conversation, or between sets. It is comfortable to keep the flow going through your friends. But with enough practise you dont need it.

And another thing, go to places early, people might just sit around the bar and have some drinks, is a more chill atmosphere and you'll have an easier time getting to know people and being included in to their group.

Once the party starts they'll remeber you and treat you as one of the team! Same ting goes for girls.

Going out alone is REALLY good. Something you should do once a month if you're serious about getting better at game. And even more often if you dont have friends at all. Then you should go out alone 4 times a week, if your citys nightlife allows it!

Good luck!

skrillavilla · 2016-02-29T00:36:24+00:00

Going out alone is character building and fun. Like any difficult thing that will make you grow as a person you will face resistance, but once you overcome it you will reap enormous rewards, both in terms of self confidence you get from being your own party, and in the adrenaline boost from overcoming a challenge.

Set a goal for the night like: 5 approaches before you can leave, or staying until last call or whatever.

Get it done.

Title	Going out alone?
Author	fvrthebrave
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	February 28, 2016 8:16 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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