Hey longtime lurker here,

Recently I(21)'ve gotten in a situation where I've started to really like a girl(21). I'll give you guys a quick summary on what's happened untill now.

So this girl is a friend of my sister and I've met her at the bday of my sister. Afterwards my sister implied that the girl thought I was hot. I didn't think much of it, a week later I get a text from her asking about tickets for a party that we would both be going to and if I knew someone who could help her. She was being a bit overly nice and I just helped her and thats that.

Fast forward a few weeks at that party ( she had a bf at that time), I didn't make any moves, just talked a bit. She started hugging me a few times randomly. The next weeks we talked more often and we both came to the conclusion that we liked each other. I went over a few times, we kissed and she broke up with her bf. The next week we had sex and 2 days after, she texted me everything went to fast blablabla. I even told her a day prior we had sex that maybe sex was too fast but she insisted it wasnt. And now she needed space.

I was heartbroken to say the least and got pretty insecure. Thought about other guys or that I was too needy. She dispelled all those things and told me it was her mental state. But I slept very bad and had trouble eating. All I thought about was her. She told me she wanted it to be spontaneus. (only when she wanted to meet, disregarding my needs)

2 Weeks later we had another party, a few months prior we decided to go together with a group. At that party I got loads of attention from other girls and I could see her getting sick of it. After the party she told me she didnt realise how much she liked me. The next 3 weeks where great again, never a sign that she was still in doubt or whatever.

This saturday she told me I could sleep over and it was great. Suddenly monday morning she texts me again that everything feels like its going to fast. The funny thing is I never brought up a relationship. She talked about her dreamwedding and asked if she was my number 1. Also she is incredibly jealous and insecure.

I just exploded and got mad. She said she wanted to have space again and not see me, to see if the feeling would go away. BUT she still wants to talk trough texts or w/e. And when I told her I didnt know if I wanted to she said we might as well quit now. I felt pressured into saying ok lets try this but I cant give any promises. She reacted with that she cant promise the feeling wont go away. Both said ok and thats that. She still sends random snapchats tho but responds with a cold thanks when i wish her well as she is sick today. I feel like she is mad at the way I reacted and I dont know where to take it from here, I still want to be around her but I fear I'm being manipulated. Am I?