Approach Anxiety

prodigy2throw · 2016-03-02T19:35:50+00:00

Man approaching is fucking awesome. Just gotta get used to it.

One thing that might help is open a woman but then reject her and walk away. I did this in the beginning by accident because I would feel a rejection coming.

Weird but it works.

OmLaLa · 2016-03-02T20:19:18+00:00

Approach with the goal of purposefully and ruthlessly fucking up. Say stupid shit. Talk nonsense. Make up words. Purposefully called her the wrong name.

Sounds off as fuck but itll teach you to make light of it all. Play it like a game because it is a game.

What you say doesn’t mean shit. It's the confidence you back it with that counts.

It told a plates friend her head looked like a pineapple because it does look like a pineapple. The first thing I thought when I saw her. All ripe looking and oblong shaped.

She got pissy and I dubbed her pineapplehead. We're meeting for drinks this Friday.

ag_nuke · 2016-03-02T20:36:46+00:00

Shock therapy. There's no shortcut, you have to desensitize yourself BY DOING IT.

Also the usual stuff like meditation (so you tone down overthinking) and reading and testosterone increase (lifting)

RedAsBlood · 2016-03-04T03:27:27+00:00

Just do it. Don't think about it.

If a girl looks at you and smiles go talk to her.

Rejection is better than regret. It will get easier as you do it more.

SovereignWings · 2016-03-02T18:43:56+00:00

Good looking loser.com has an approach anxiety program, give it a try.

But really the best answer is to just approach. You will feel awkward at first but as you do it more and more it becomes less and less of a problem, until eventually you can hit on Mother Superior in Sunday Mass without breaking a sweat.

Title	Approach Anxiety
Author	nofapzone22
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	March 2, 2016 6:34 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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