Guys, stop paying for dates with women who are not worth your time. Years ago before I wised up to this I agreed to take a woman on a date to a nice Italian restaurant in her neighborhood, this was convenient for her and I did not mind as I like to try new places. She ordered a huge salad big enough for two people, which she ate and then told the waiter to box her entrée as the salad was more than enough. Ha, she has done this before. I knew I had been played, but maybe she is just cheap and has other good qualities I thought. After dinner I walked her out to her car and asked her what she was doing later, maybe we could go dancing or drinks? Ha, she did not have time for that as she had to rush to a private airport to get on her boyfriends plane to go somewhere. I was played big time. So my advice to you guys is stop investing your time and money in losers and users. A woman that is interested in you will make it obvious. You can't win a uninterested woman over, either she likes you or not. I have some suggestions that have worked for me. Spend less than $10 on the first date, coffee, a walk, free stuff, Meetup events. If she shows you attention with a innocent touch of the arm or other nonverbal attraction cues then you can pursue her, otherwise you are just a friend and will always be a friend.