I am a 20 year old ForeverAlone male with Aspergers; although my therapist says I look normal, I have realized that romance is probably not in the cards for me. I have a few friends that tolerate me and even like having me around; this is kind of new for me (it comes and goes. Sometimes, I am an outcast. Other times, I have friends.) People see me as creepy, especially women. Other men tolerate me at worst and like me at best. It's women my age, especially attractive ones, that are the worst. They seem to think I am offending them by my very presence-some of them even joke that I am a pedophile despite NEVER being near a small child when I could avoid it. I cultivate the reputation of not wanting anything to do with small children for this reason: I give off "creeper" vibes. I try not to talk to attractive women unless absolutely necessary. How can I get some dignity and not have this "creeper" shit going on? I am 5'8" African American. I weigh 150 deadlift 315 squat 225 bench 200. 15 percent body fat. Looks average or a little better. Is there any hope for me? If not, how do I at least talk platonically to women without creeping them out?
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