Conflicted

Worldly_Diver9265 · 2026-07-27T00:50:01+00:00

Sit down with no kids and tell her what you just told us. Sounds like you both gave up. Maybe she wants to fix it....maybe not.

threeLetterMeyhem · 2026-07-26T22:22:38+00:00

My parents divorced when I was 20. They should have divorced when I was 5.

If you want to fuck up these kids by teaching them marriage is a loveless farce, stay married.

If you care about them, be honest and do the right thing.

painfulletdown · 2026-07-26T22:14:52+00:00

Way better for everyone involved after divorce. I was just staying miserable in marriage for the kids and that was not a good move as everyone is negative. Now we are all happy and negativity very much reduced.

Afroviking1 · 2026-07-26T21:12:58+00:00

Divorced but under entirely different circumstances. I will give it to you straight bruh. You were the backup plan. Don't spend anymore money on those kids, they are not yours and will never fully appreciate your efforts. Make a mindful exit, but don't cross the 10 year mark. She is only keeping it together for the next 4 years so she can get alimony and take half your shit.

I'm now with a woman 11 years younger, beautiful, and we are on the same page about life and going forward. Already two years strong with her

Good luck bruv

Title	Conflicted
Author	DifferentVictory4241
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	July 26, 2026 7:16 PM UTC (6 days ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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