New TRP having trouble digesting the Pill

G_Petronius · 2016-04-04T21:21:39+00:00

Imagine having never learned to walk; you've crawled on all fours all your life. So has almost everyone you've ever known. You sometimes realize that it has many disadvantages, but you don't really have an alternative.

Suddenly you read from a bunch of guys on the internet that you can walk on two legs and it's fucking awesome. You read their arguments and it convinces more and more that it's true.

At the same time you think how it would be learning to walk and you realize that you'd have to consciously adjust your movements all the time, and that it would be unnatural and uncomfortable. You think that maybe natural walkers can do this, but it must be hell for tall the others. You wonder that maybe you can't just find a place in the world that is made for crawlers, where you'd fit comfortably.

Of course, if you went through the process you would find that initially it's awkward and uncomfortable. At times it would feel strangely natural, and in fact at many points you'd marvel at how much easier moving is when walking compared to crawling. And at other times you'd stumble and fall and wonder if this isn't all just idiocy.

And if you stuck to it, eventually walking would come as naturally as breathing to you, and you could even run. You wouldn't have to think about how to move your legs or swing your arms or rotate your hips, your instincts reawakened would do everything for you.

That's the process that is in front of you. Society has done its hardest to keep you crawling, because betabucks are good drones who work hard, fuel consumer spending and don't ask too many questions. There are even tactics to keep you from trying to stand up and make the sensible choice. But if you do, and you stick with it through the first inevitable awkwardness, you'll never stop thanking yourself you did.

FieldLine · 2016-04-04T21:30:05+00:00

The purpose of TRP is to help you understand the dynamics of a relationship, whether it is a ONS stand or an LTR. You have no obligation to immediately implement everything you read, but it is important to educate yourself so you can understand what is happening.

Truly, I believe that every guy needs to have his heart broken at some point, if only to help him internalize the red pill. It's one thing to read about it and believe it. It's another to actually experience it.

My advice? Go out and give a woman your love. Enjoy it while it lasts, just don't do anything stupid like propose to her the moment she gives you any attention. And if it does come crashing down, at least you'll understand why. Then you can come back to learn how to get it right next time.

Coolbeans024ptf · 2016-04-04T22:59:44+00:00

That is the hard part, the thing you want isn't possible. It's s dream, when you feel like it's true and someone loves you unconditionally it's just a feeling. Enjoy those feelings but don't make decisions based on them. To the extent you act on trp you can foster a loving atmosphere but to keep it going you have to be hard and define your borders well. I think you can have something similar to what you want but not exactly.

Men are the romantic sex, women want a man to be in love with them because it's a sure sight he will make irrational decisions that benefit the women.

ice_man_ · 2016-04-04T22:45:49+00:00

Don't take it personally, women are hard wired to act the way they do (many times subcontiously), all we can do is learn how to deal with it.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2016-04-04T23:36:45+00:00

To me it's NOT calculated manipulation. At all. It's just me being me, exactly who I am, without pretense- I want what I want, she wants what she wants, ideally we will both get what we want but I COME FIRST.

The way we learned to interact with women is completely fake and calculated. TRP is natural and easy.

Thenextprince · 2016-04-05T00:58:22+00:00

Its not possible. Women will never love you or give you that filling love you seek. love yourself. Surround yourself with loyal alpha bros, constantly improve all the time, find hobbies you love. create.

Stop looking to women for love. Women hate men who are moral, compassionate & loving. That "love" grosses her out. Love is only a chemical reaction in the brain put there to get animals to mate. That's all it, and compassion, is. Chemical reactions. Distance yourself from your emotions (sont dull yourself, just dont base your thoughts and logic off your emotion) but understand them and feel them. I reccomend meditating for calmness and clarity. I started meditating last week, and although I'm not a loving person like you or very emotional, it helps me calm my mind. Try it sometime.

Title	New TRP having trouble digesting the Pill
Author	TheBrokenRuler
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	April 4, 2016 9:05 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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