Is it a bad idea too approach women while not completely in shape? I’m finally secured financially, and have more time to workout more. Learning BJJ soon, shouting for girlfriend prospects and gaining more experience, with women. I’m not as shy as I was 2 years ago, I’m a bit more fearless due to life adversity so my emotional resilience is up to par to make an approach. may not be successfully, especially without a maxed out physique.

unfortunately being African American dating is totally different than most guys outside of our ethnicity, it’s not spoken about enough!!

At times I would get choosing signals but never moved it anywhere cause the type of black women are overly dominant or overly promiscuously-choosing.

For instance This black chick early was walking wit her ass all out thinking I was looking, whole time I’m already know she’s going for anything Toxic with dreads but I have standards especially when it comes to ghetto females, if yk yk.

Outside of that would delaying approaching women be better if I got physically in shape or use the confidence and charisma I have now.
Also Im in a predominantly Caucasian & Hispanic small town, 9/10 my options are ‘wealthy’ white chicks or overly ghetto females, Mexican chicks by chance … but making the money I have most black women wont stand a chance, its pointless. And with the social intelligence I have white girls are not Goin’ and I’m simply not compatible with most white chicks, unless she’s seasoned, my eyes would pick it up fast.