We just moved and out house up for sale (down sizing). She is happy with sitting at home all day and I want to go out. Done compromising and calling it quits when the house sells. I am going to move to another state where I wanted to live anyways. Tired of feeling stuck and not alive anymore. It's actually physically and emotionally killing me. Anyone ever have to leave a "good person" because of different lifestyle wants and needs? And yes we have talked about it, no she won't budge.