How should I react if she declines my invitation to be my date at a friend's wedding?

Denisgat · 2016-04-13T05:35:03+00:00

K.I.S.S. Just respond with an nonchalant "Ok" then go ask someone else that you should have lined up....or not. Just show that you dgaf if she goes or not and you're still going to enjoy yourself.

psyflux · 2016-04-13T10:11:10+00:00

Don't, maintain frame, soft next.

Her using work as an excuse so far ahead of time is a pretty solid sign she's not interested.

Pro Tip: RSVP yourself and an unnamed +1. If you can't find a woman interested in a spontaneous wedding date invite between now and then you're not approaching enough.

NumbersPrime · 2016-04-13T03:47:21+00:00

Have someone else lined up and make sure she knows it

fnordsnord · 2016-04-13T14:11:42+00:00

Ask her. Don't be butthurt if she "can't come."

But drink this in: a woman who is into you will MAKE time to be with you. And they LOVE weddings. If she "can't get off work," it's a pretty strong indicator if disinterest. If that happens, soft Next and move on.

/u/numbersprime has a good point. Have a plan B. Make sure she knows there's a plan B.

Title	How should I react if she declines my invitation to be my date at a friend's wedding?
Author	marijuanatablet
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	April 13, 2016 3:12 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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