respect in LTRs

epictetus_irl · 2018-10-11T14:34:40+00:00

The only two ‘weapons’ you have are your attention and your commitment.

When you’re disrespected or not getting what you want/need simply withdraw one or both.

She’ll either fall in line or not.

Red_Ninja7 · 2018-10-11T14:50:58+00:00

I've told my wife "Don't talk to me like that." She'd cry and then move past it.

nabosch · 2018-10-11T14:50:22+00:00

You don't become exclusive right away and you make her earn your commitment after she's been behaving well for a while.

When she fucks up you correct the mistake fast and then withdraw attention and time.

Title	respect in LTRs
Author	TriggaTriz
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	October 11, 2018 2:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9naebi/respect_in_ltrs/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/respect-in-ltrs.1645 https://theredarchive.com/post/1645

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