I'm 30 year old male. I've been a lurker and a participant on this forum for a few years. I've been reading RP type material for even longer. I used to clean the fuck up with women. For years, I slammed hot pussy, a steady stream of it. I'm not saying I was perfect, I'd still catch oneitis from time to time (pretty badly), I'd prioritize pussy over my own mission, and other beta behaviors - but the one thing I always had was a supply of hot girls to fuck. I always kept a little harem of around 4-5 long term fwbs and then would cycle in others when I felt like it. I had a lot of success on tinder and bumble and had good game when out as well. I'd even pick up chicks at work, school, even places like the grocery store. I was just good.

Well now, something has changed. I finally have my own apartment again for the first time in three years. I had roommates for awhile, then I stayed with my parents for awhile to save money. Ironically, being 29 at my parents didn't hurt my success with women at all, I still had the steady stream. Even my parents were impressed lol. But now, I have a great place right outside a major US city in a great neighborhood and there are hotties literally everywhere. I've been here for a month and a half and have yet to get one new woman over here. The three I've had are all women I'd previously fucked. I get plenty of tinder matches, but something always goes wrong. My game is fucked up. Part of it is a reduced tolerance for bullshit (if a girl flakes I tell her off). Even my long term harem has been reduced to one (it was two but after a trip gone horribly wrong earlier this week, I had to say goodbye to another 5 year fwb). There are actually 2 other hot women I have fucked and would be happy to fuck me again - but they live far from where I moved to, and up until now I haven't been able to drive, and they are not willing to drive down here.

Even back in March/April I was still doing well. For the first three months of covid, I was staying with my parents and we were all doing a strict quarantine. I had so many hot girls I was meeting on bumble and tinder, and I remember I was having to turn them down because of our quarantine. I finally snuck out twice and fucked two beautiful women. Since then though, I went on a heavy drug binge (I have had on and off substance abuse problems my whole life). My mental health has not been the best. Although I feel like my game is the same, I can't help but feel this must be contributing to the problem. Somehow women can sense things like this. I also haven't been able to drive due to covid related backups at my DMV - but this is finally going to be fixed this week.

I am in the process of quitting the drugs, and I got off the main, most destructive one - methamphetamine - about 5 days ago. I will be driving this week. I haven't been to a gym in 3 months - mainly because my state still won't allow them to open. Desperate for exercise. I live in a great town, but don't know anybody. Bars are not open yet in my state either. Any advice on how to get out there is appreciated. My tinder has tons of matches, but many have flaked/not answered/got lost in the mix. Feel very isolated.

tl:dr Game isn't what it was, correlates with decline in mental health. Need advice and some love, and to get myself back to where I was