Female "friend" broke up with her boyfriend, how do I get her

Pycal · 2019-01-15T21:42:21+00:00

Forget about her, i guess you have oneitis.

giyaslayer · 2019-01-15T21:47:13+00:00

Clearly you just found red pill subreddit because you wanted to get your dick wet just like a lot of people, read the sidebar

006rbc · 2019-01-15T21:57:48+00:00

I'm not emotionally attached to her

Yes you are.

so she's probably pretty attached to me

Friend zoned.

Thought of a few options

You've been fantasizing about this for some time now.

Try to get her when we get drunk

No confidence when sober

Make my friend tell her im attracted to her and that he did it on his own without my permissiom

Again, no confidence and makes you look weak since you can't make a move on your own.

You arent ready. Read the side bar, keep lifting and forget about this girl because you are showing the signs of an orbiter.

Your title makes it sound like you just found this sub and are looking for the magic solution. If you have been lurking here for a while, you wouldn't need to ask this question.

giyaslayer · 2019-01-15T22:05:22+00:00

So you're just a 3 years orbiter who thinks he can just swoop in and make her fall for you?

Listen kid, all the options you listed range from "terrible" to "awful". There is no opportunity for you to get in her pants and if there was ever one, you blew it three years ago.

What you need to do right now is distance yourself from this girl. You need to start lifting and you need to talk to other girls. If she finds you attractive again, let her chase you. If she doesn't, you shouln't care one bit. You're talking to other girls. Hopefully, you're fucking some of them.

Bottom line, you are not "a red pill" and it doesn't have anything to do with your age. You need to read everything in the sidebar and identify some weaknesses you have and work to correct them. You also need to lift weights. But most important of all, you need to focus on college or trade school or whatever 17 years old are supposed to do to not end up working minimum wage at 35 years old.

BigTipCuddy · 2019-01-15T21:39:19+00:00

yea definitely don't do number 2 or 4. 1 just sounds rapey. Just flirt with her casually in school and make a move(go for a kiss) when you two hang out alone

MisunderstoodAsian · 2019-01-15T22:20:40+00:00

You have oneitis and you lack any sort of understanding of the basic fundamentals of TRP. Good news though, in time you'll realise how beta you are now. For now, read the sidebar, that's the minimum requirement and you clearly haven't done that.

bluescreen420 · 2019-01-15T23:21:58+00:00

I'm 16 and let me inform you that even if you "get" her, she isn't yours, its a fallacy that teenagers play into because they crave oxytocin. I would forget about her, go to the gym, then go get youself a nice meal at your favorite restaurant, alone. Then go talk to other girls.

TheSecondLesson · 2019-01-15T21:57:18+00:00

You: (Dumb chit chat)...So listen, now that you and X are over, I want to take you out for some drinks and some dancing.

Her: Eh, I’m just not that interested at the moment.

You: OK (then you go do your own thing and forget about her)

If she likes you, she’ll give you an in. If she doesn’t, then move on—no need to be friends unless you really care about a friendship with a female who doesn’t have any interest in you sexually.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-01-16T04:43:05+00:00

Why aren't you gaming other girls?

MindlessCalendar · 2019-01-16T14:24:44+00:00

1) Try to get her when we get drunk 2) Tell her im attracted to her 3) Take it slowly by flirting and not telling anything (I think she wouldn't notice because I'm that deep in friendzone) 4) Make my friend tell her im attracted to her and that he did it on his own without my permissiom

Read the sidebar. Everything you asked is in it and all of these 4 options are 100% wrong, except maybe the first option. That one might work, but is just needy and desperate. And you would've known all of that if you actually read the material.

Also read the most frequently asked asktrp question in the sidebar of this sub, the Rational Male and so much more RP material. You really need it and you would benefit from it greatly at this young age.

Title	Female "friend" broke up with her boyfriend, how do I get her
Author	giyaslayer
Upvotes	0
Comments	32
Date	January 15, 2019 9:34 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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