I realize I'm about to get beat up, but I'd also like any advice to anyone willing- longtime lurker who has learned a lot

thumbelinagreen · 2015-10-07T19:23:24+00:00

Your hamster is going at full speed and you need to calm down. I suggest going over everything in the side bar(s) and doing so carefully and intentionally. You may be able to answer your own questions.

First of all, for the love of G-d don't reach out to your ex.

How should you proceed? If you're really serious about bettering yourself you will stop seeking constant validation and reassurance. It seems that your alpha fuck n bucks is still in the process of feeling you out so respect that. If you will feel better handing over your info, do so, but nix the pomp and ceremony.

always-be-closing · 2015-10-07T19:18:03+00:00

I'm not sure I have concrete advice, but your post doesn't make it clear who you are dating now. The original man you cheated on? Or the man you cheated on him with? Assigning names, even just letters, would be helpful to clear that up.

[deleted] · 2015-10-07T20:14:51+00:00

Don't bring it up out of nowhere, but if he brings up his qualms again, offer him full transparency. All of your passwords, phone access, GPS app on your phone, whatever he wants. Respectfully ask if there are any further boundaries that would make him more comfortable, like a curfew, or no partying at other people's houses, or no alcohol consumption outside his presence. Be honest why you left your ex for him: He is more manly and attractive and he's everything you've ever wanted. It's not hollow flattery if it's true.

Beyond that, just continue being as good of a girlfriend as you can. Don't be anxious or neurotic, just be chill and fun and pleasant. And if it doesn't work out, just take it graciously, you did your best.

[deleted] · Wed Oct 7 19:12:23 2015 UTC

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Title	I realize I'm about to get beat up, but I'd also like any advice to anyone willing- longtime lurker who has learned a lot
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Date	October 7, 2015 5:16 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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