Throwaway Account.

Lil bit of background of myself: I'm a MGTOW/Red Pill who is too idealistic to let the concept of love go, dating a girl and we've been together for 8 months. I'm an ambivert, but I hate clubs, gettys are more my style.

So I've just finished listening to " The Rational Male - Hypergamy: Micro To Macro" by Rollo

(Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D9BQ-_33RGg)

I'm a little confused. I understand that women want 2 men, one to be the provider, one to be the alpha fuck, and that this fluctuates with her ovulation cycle. But does that mean you can't be both? I've seen signs of what Rollo was talking about, where my girlfriend had nights out with her girl friend. I don't believe at these times she was ovulating, so she wasn't at peak "I want to produce with a suitable man". I've never had an instance where she has told me about kissing another guy, or doing anything stupid, aiming to end the relationship. I did however tell her that she shouldn't be going to the club for no reason, as I see the club as a place for single people and people in relationships to ride on the infidelity wave of the 2010s. She was sad, told me she feels terrible for making me feel jealous (I wasn't jealous), and that she'd feel the same way if I was out with my friends. She then aimed to discuss when we should be going out to the club, as it's kind of weird to let down friends simply because you're in a relationship. I told her if we're together, or if her friend group has an event or mine has an event, it's cool to go, as I'm not looking to ruin her relationships with her friends (mostly girls, I know that's a problem). Does all of this mean she's thinks less of me as a boyfriend? or is her listening to me showing me she genuinely cares about what I'm saying?

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