girl i'm seeing at the moment for maybe a month or two has tonight got into a feedback loop of negativity/drama/crankyness

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the heart of it as far as i can tell is certain habits i have in texting/calling.

usually i will decline the call if it's out of the blue, or i am doing something, mostly because i just dont like voice calls..

she said i don't respond when i have seen a message (sometimes i will glance at messages when i'm at work, or just generally doing other things, or just not seeing a need for a response right away)

and one word responses - which i do frequently because i don't like to give alot of attention to pissy behaviour, and also because i will respond with one word, and then follow up with more frequently, she just responds too quickly for me to do that very often

my general tactic towards this has been to not give it alot of attention, not be phased by it and act aloof when she is saying dramatic things such as "you dont care about my feelings" "you dont respond" etc

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i dont have much patience for dealing with this sort of dramatic behavior, i would rather not lose her.. but i dont think i will submit to her to resolve it...