Speaking to a girl

CainPrice · 2019-01-20T17:11:17+00:00

Attention from strangers on the internet is fun for women, until the strangers get whiny, send too many messages, and get boring.

Why are you blabbing for any extended length of time through text messages with a woman?

When you communicate via text, it should never be just to make conversation. The driving goal should be to set up a meeting. Your job isn't to ask a girl what she's looking for. It's to get a girl interested enough to meet you. When a girl finally asks you what you're looking for, you tell her let's meet for drinks and see what happens. It's too early for you to fall madly in love or to jump into bed with her.

If your conversation is just small talk, followed by you finally asking about her sex/relationship goals, then defending and explaining yourself to her and sending half a dozen unanswered messages until she deletes you, you fucked up at a few points. But hey, this girl from instagram was probably just milking you for fun and never intended to actually date you anyway.

mitch102899 · 2019-01-20T18:32:19+00:00

So what would you recommend then, in terms of getting good things for a girl, like I’m a good looking lad. Like I know there will be better looking lads and uglier lads.

Title	Speaking to a girl
Author	mitch102899
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	January 20, 2019 5:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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