I live in an area populated with mainly 6-7's. I consider myself amongst them. Recently met a girl that blew my socks off. Almost closed on the first night out. I stopped myself- fuckin' feelings of inadequacy. I now feel driven to try and remove those before closing this out with her.

I know wanting to do this FOR her is a waste of space in my mind, but I turn into a hurricane of action when I feel like this. Anxiety is a driving factor for me. I can't help but feel helpless like this, even when improving. Help?