I've been seeing a new girl. We've been doing everything but actual sex for the past two weeks. I'm also fairly new to TRP. Before ya'll ask yes, I'm having sex with two other girls at the moment.

So basically one of my friends is friends with 'newgirls' roommate/friend, which is how I met her. Anyway, they went out last night and my friend heard them talking about me at some point. My friend overheard his friend ask 'newgirl' something to the effect of "how are things going with spokenwords99" and she said "He's a total gem". The catch: the following sentence was something about "how hot some other guy was". My friend was actually there when she met this other guy; they met her at a bar a few days prior to myself and in his words "they made out but I know anything else, I left early".

I have a bad feeling about this now. I took her out to eat on an actual date because she hasn't given me any 'redflags'. When I tried to make things go further than sex she didn't want to, yet she doesn't seem very experienced/confident when it comes to sex ooverall. She says her partner count is ONE person. Her oral is severely lacking, so much so that I almost wish it hadn't gone that far - after ignoring the fact she legit started to give me a handjob as if we were in highschool - until I told her to use her mouth.

After reading a lot of posts on here, I'm now left wondering if I am her "beta bux's" while she's trying to figure out what this "hot guy" is going to do? Then again I've never been described as a "total gem" so I have no idea what the fuck that means. I'm either over thinking it, or onto something?