Recent RP recipient, and looking for critique on what I did well/need to improve on (this is longer than I thought, sorry please help me learn). Also, just got home so I am a bit tipsy, so please forgive typos, just want to get it out when it is fresh. Here is what happened (also, I'm in good shape, have a good job (42k + free housing) and apparently am good looking but a bit poor self esteem from BP failures:

Met girl on tinder a few weeks ago and traded numbers, we talked a bit, then I just didn't respond for 4 days. Then told her we should meet up. It threw her off, but she got excited and said yes. We set a date and had plans to meet up, but she said she got sick really early that day, whatever, told her to let me know when she got better. She did, I set a date out like 6 days in the future (figure don't let her think I am available immediately, also had work shit at night for some of them). She agrees, so I pick date, time and place. I also tell her I am on call (this is true, I can also drink on call, so don't judge me for being tipsy, just can't get shitty).

We meet up, she is a bit bigger than I thought, but still a 6.5 or 7 (cute face, resemblance of a girl I had a crush on in college), and you have to start spinning plates at 1, right? Anyway, I start Kino, but she keeps it going, and pushing it hard. I reciprocate somewhat, but am a bit on and off. Go for the kiss, then she keeps it going. Not full on making out, but not kissing your mom. I pull away and start watching the olympics. She pushes a bit further, but doesn't get a full make out, but I will kiss her only when she is so obvious I can't ignore it). This continues, we get a bit heavier making out at the bar/continue drinking. At this point she gets a text that her boss's kid is sick and she might need to come into work tomorrow (she shows me this text). Things progress, as she pushes her leg up against mine, I turn to grab another beer and focus on wanting booze. Continue for a bit and I tell her we should come back to my place to show it to her in a new perspective (her lil sis lives where I work). She is into it, but we both have full drinks.

We continue to drink and goof around picking speed skater winners to buy drinks, etc. I can tell she is really into me, lots of keno including leg contact, I move my hand off her leg and she puts it back etc. At this point I suggest we get out of there and she agrees. We finish our drinks, and pulls out her phone and says she has to go into work early. I push a bit to come back to my place (I thought it was closer, but am new to the area and she is not and says it is further from her parents, she splits sleeping at both places), I push a bit but don't get much of a response. We continue to make out and pay our tab.

This is where we we go out in the parking lot and start full on making out. Make another push to go back to my place, but she doesn't bite. Continue and just open my car door and push her in the back seat (2 door jeep). We continue to make out, and I just go for it and shove my hand down her pants. Finger blast the shit out of her and take my pants off. She starts giving me an HJ, but won't go further. I told her I can't get off from HJs, but we keep going at it. She gets off a few times and tells me I am good at it, etc, but won't do anything else. She continues to try to give me HJ but refuses to do anything else. At this point, I basically tell her to get out of my car, we fool around a bit more and I kinda do kick her out of my car (not going to keep getting her off when I don't get anything but strokes).

She leaves and I go home. What did I do wrong/well/good/bad. Any tips or thoughts would be helpful. I got a 9 on the line to meet up next week and would like to be more successful. Also, this is not dead in any means (from what I can tell). But a critique would be cool