Want to know the worst feeling you had when you were a simp (before MGTOW)?

anonymous578033 · 2020-08-31T04:36:15+00:00

Worst feeling for me is all the $$$ I wasted simping to the max. Could have travelled the world twice over.

CuriousQuestionBoi · 2020-08-31T04:47:46+00:00

Worst feeling for me before MGTOW was when my gf cheated on me with 5 other guys. Never again will I ever put myself in that situation.

GimmeaBurrito · 2020-08-31T04:54:42+00:00

Oh boy, where to begin. I look at this as a former blue-pill confession thread, so I’ll go ahead and embarrass myself:

I had a massive crush on a friend of mine in college. Asked her out twice over three years (she said no both times), and used to do a bunch of chores for her for free to try and get her to like me, such as shoveling her and her roommates walkway/stairs when it snowed and baking her sweets. I cringe thinking about how desperate I was back then.
I let my first girlfriend basically decide all our dates (even if she picked things I hated) because I wanted to make her happy and didn’t want to lose her. Looking back at it, the fact that the relationship lasted 6 months before I broke it off is incredible. I should’ve broken it off about 4 months earlier.
Let one girl talk me into not having sex and “saving ourselves for marriage.” Never again.

Anyways, I’ve learned my lesson. These will never happen again.

TowerOfMG · 2020-08-31T04:37:15+00:00

Worse feeling was believing my significant others wouldn't cheat and being wrong.

Dunkman83 · 2020-08-31T05:55:18+00:00

So many.

My kids mother smacked me in front of my daughter and my brother, over a petty disagreement. I know understand just the total lack of respect she had for me. I eventually found out she was cheating on me. Blah.

Other girlfriend, we was having a convo (not even an argument) she was drinking out of a cup, and she spit the liquid in my face. Again a total lack of respect for me.

Side note: im 6 foot 1, 250 pounds lifted weights my whole life, boxing and mma training. No man would DARE do such things, ever.

But something told these 5'2 women that there would be no consequences for such actions. Smh never again

Whirrlz · 2020-08-31T04:44:06+00:00

All those times in the past when I tried to date single moms. Feeling like a failure after each rejection. Feeling like there was something wrong with me. Only to then stumble upon MGTOW and learn that it was never me. It was just hypergamy.

baulrog76 · 2020-08-31T09:04:07+00:00

Worst feeling was coming home from those bars and nightclubs everynight near crying cause i failed im lonely. Never again.

5inchdrone · 2020-08-31T07:25:23+00:00

Dated a girl who I let lead me into.misery. Looked in the mirror one day. Fat as fuck. Bloated. Beta simp looking back at me. I felt disgusted. That was low. Broke up with her. Got my shit together. Got at least 50% simp tendencies still, hence why avoid woman in relationships and only pump and dump before I revert back to my pathetic nature.

Global_MGTOW · 2020-08-31T07:35:31+00:00

Worst was passing up so much pussy for being a nice guy. I had women throw themselves on me for sex in HS, some I took up on their offer but I passed up a lot of easy pussy that was given to me on a silver platter for being a nice guy. Learned my lesson.

Vobat · 2020-08-31T09:44:48+00:00

I was an idiot as I couldn't see what was right in front of my eyes and break the cycle.

1 Get girlfriend

2 For some magical reason I would become more stressed, life sucked, I would put on weight and was always broke and in debt.

3 Eventually we would break up.

4 Go on a mad misson to lose weight saved up a healthy bank balance.

5 Go traveling around the work have a lot of 1 -7 night stands and a lot of fun

6 Return home.

7 Go back to 1.

Gehrman_The_Hunter · 2020-08-31T13:02:00+00:00

Worst feeling for me is making all kinds of excuses for her crazy/abusive behavior and blaming myself. I was so desperate that I ignored every single red flag I came across.

Don't be a simp and go your own way. She doesn't deserve you.

RockmanXX · 2020-08-31T14:27:38+00:00

You stop feeling sorry for yourself when you realize that the game is rigged to make you lose your self-esteem. Its always the man who has to propose and give woman the power to "Reject".

The game is rigged, that's all. Nothing wrong with you.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-08-31T10:30:35+00:00

For me it was the nagging and deteriorating genuine belief something was dead wrong with me. Something I absolutely couldn't figure out what it was so I didn't have a clue what to do about it.

When I found out TRP I realized I wasn't a loud mouth, useless thug which make females crotch drool. People have told me but it was at that moment it sank in: women are insane and there is nothing wrong with me. Sure I have some flaws like everybody have but nothing major. In this day and age women are manipulated to believe it's a good thing to throw in their window of fertility by whoring around, submerging themselves into insurmountable student debts and chasing useless "careers." Only to find themselves alone with their cats and wine cartons after they hit the wall. Then projecting their self hatred on to other people, especially men. How insane is that?!

Oh: before the "reee!!" starts. I know there are some exceptions within said women group. But somehow I don't hear those women screaming out how we incels just can't get laid.

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-08-31T12:49:32+00:00

Nothing is more pathetic than watching a desperate man beg for pussy and selfcastrate himself without shame desperately trying to earn her approval!

Full-time_FAD3R · 2020-08-31T18:06:10+00:00

Believing the lies fed to us by the media . And maligning men for being irritated with their wives before knowing of the never ending shit tests and the mind games ...all of the fucking gaslighting. Losing your dreams to someone’s petty low sense of self . Never again .

Worst of all , when I was a teen and dedicating a lot of time on one girl that rejected me outright when I told her that I was looking to do more . Years later when I was well to do in our subculture, the way she changed and sought me out when she was older and with no future at the age of 24 . That was amazing . I noticed all the stupid tricks I used to wish she had done for me at 17. Absent father , domineering mother . Bred a monster with no self esteem and control . I was disgusted by then .

MGTOWmb · 2020-08-31T15:38:37+00:00

The worst feeling for me was having to jump through hoop after never-ending hoop to try to make my exes happy, all while neglecting myself and being miserable.

The best part of MGTOW is I do what I want, when I want, while being surrounded by peace and quiet.

carlosval92 · 2020-08-31T19:40:00+00:00

And what about the emotional spends.

Spend 3 years suffering for my ex just to found out she really liked other guy. The other guy never wanted to date her actually she was pretty ugly idk what I was thinking btw.

Now she just post things for love, she is alone and ugly and I was the one who fell for her. My god what an idiot. 🤦‍♂️

420donkeypower · 2020-08-31T10:47:41+00:00

Probably when my ex 'made me' record a conversation with a couple of my family members confessing sole responsibility for things she had a huge part in, then play it back for her as proof.

Just to save face. I broke trust with the ones that are still there for me for a controlling, selfish c word.

That, plus all the cumulative times my goals took the backseat (career or otherwise, but especially career) because "it wasn't best for the family." I remember one late night feeling so weak and directionless, like I didn't know who I was anymore. That turned out to be the beginning of the end of our marriage.

llama_in_space · 2020-08-31T10:46:52+00:00

never went that low, never will

Rudo88 · 2020-09-01T11:13:02+00:00

For me I used to be the nice guy that would get used as an emotional tampon, or to see what they could get out of me. Like dating me for food and drinks.

My first girlfriend I was with for a number of years. I used to be a bad simp writing poems and songs for her. Used to compliment her all the time and put her on a pedestal that she was first and I was second. She ended up leaving me for a drug dealer who abused her. Years later she tried to come back but had none of it.

Dated in between for a few years then come to my lowest point. I lowered myself to sleeping with a single mum of 3. She would always go on girls nights out and dump her kids on family members to get wasted and then call me at the end of the night to use me for sex or to pick her up from somewhere. I am not a drinker and I had a realisation that I could do much better then her. I broke it off and she went crazy. So much so I have not been with a woman for a few years now and it's been the best thing I have ever done. No stress, more money. I spend more time with my brothers who I have showed the red pill its been amazing.

Title	Want to know the worst feeling you had when you were a simp (before MGTOW)?
Author	Whirrlz
Upvotes	101
Comments	38
Date	August 31, 2020 4:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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