Me (f22) and my boyfriend (m26) have been together for two years now.

He was emotionally abusive and sometimes almost physically. I was 19 when we started dating and he was my first real boyfriend. I didn’t know what he was doing since i had nothing to compare it to. It never felt right or healthy but i loved him despite the toxic traits.

I didn’t have the strength to leave. I was scared. Now that i’m finding out how he’s been treating me i just wanna run and never look back.

We had a fight two days ago and he’s giving me the silent treatment. I never want to talk to him after this. I don’t think he’s gonna let go this easily though.

I think there’s gonna be a lot of trying to text and call me. I’m not gonna pick up but should i reply to his texts and tell him that i don’t want to be with him anymore?

He knows where i live so i’m a bit scared that he might come by my house. What should i do if that happens?

He even has nude pictures of me and i’m also scared that he might leak them.

I just want this to be a really peaceful break up so i can start to move on but i doubt that he’s gonna let go without talking or seeing to me.

If i see him, he’s gonna change my mind so i want to avoid doing that.

Any advice on how to do this the right way?