Get used to Jerks and Flakes

Bobsutan · 2013-01-22T21:31:51+00:00

If a woman flakes the prime reasons are you didn't get her invested enough and/or a better prospect came along and edged you out.

Investment is a factor of time and interest. Interest is a factor of comfort with intimacy. In other words, the more time she spends with you the higher your mere-exposure effect. If you are doing things right like escalating physically then she'll be getting used to gradually increasing levels of intimacy, and when that happens once you part ways her rationalization hamster will do the rest. For example, "I wouldn't have done xyz if I didn't really like him."

There's a LOT more to it than this, but these are the broad strokes.

theubercuber · 2013-01-22T16:41:33+00:00

I'm still in the "too awkward to get the F-close" camp... Am I boned?

Title	Get used to Jerks and Flakes
Author	redpillschool
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	January 22, 2013 3:51 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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