What would you all suggest is the correct course of action when a woman fails your compliance tests?

I picked up a plate who absolutely refuses to submit to my commands on most occasions, seemingly as a matter of principle. Simple commands like “kiss me” or “stand over here” or “give me your hand” are met with obstinate refusal, as if she gets off on doing the opposite of what I say. Now make no mistake, this girl has fallen firmly and happily within my frame, but I’ve never dealt with such an arbitrarily stubborn plate before.

What does this imply about her? Maybe it’s her way of acting bratty/playful, or maybe she is not submissive by nature (I hate when girls try to take the reigns of dominance, it throws off all of my game)...