Girl who wronged me in the past wants to talk and appologize

abdada · 2018-02-19T15:17:19+00:00

She's a shitty human being for wanting to talk. She doesn't give a shit about your hurt feelings, she only cares that she can trick you into forgiving her.

Don't bother meeting her. Hard next for real.

If she presses, just say "I've got a lot of great things going on and I am not going to make any time for you." And block her messages.

YasserZe · 2018-02-19T15:44:27+00:00

It's the textbook " l want closure" trap , don't give her the satisfaction of thinking you give a shit about her , then she'll want to be friends ,"orbiter" , and then you'll be like a dick in a glass box , "in case of hitting the wall ,break glass"

CAPIreland · 2018-02-19T15:13:51+00:00

You have to decide: is this going to let you move on and forget her, make you feel better, or just let her stop harassing you? If not, don't meet up.

fnordsnord · 2018-02-19T18:49:30+00:00

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[deleted] · 2018-02-19T15:24:10+00:00

Ghost her

Eulerbrah · 2018-02-19T15:29:02+00:00

you don't owe her an explanation. In fact, you don't owe her shyt. She was disrespectful to you, don't be a little bitch and explain to her how her actions hurt you. If her apology is in person, just brush it off, laugh and pretend like it never gone to you. If through text, don't read the whole essay, reply with "don't worry about it." or just don't reply.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-02-19T17:06:56+00:00

Oops. You payed attention to what a woman said and ignored her past actions.

Can you reasonably say that there's a good chance that stroking her ego by meeting her, will result in her sucking your cock later that night?

No?

Then even responding to her is a giant waste of your time, when you should be approaching other women and lifting instead. Not thinking about anything she said.

RunawayGrain · 2018-02-19T20:35:04+00:00

I've gone no contact for ~8 months and it's been driving her crazy.

You're winning. Don't fuck it up by talking to her.

mrpthrowa · 2018-02-19T16:56:26+00:00

you must be as worthless as your time if you're willing to spend it on such things.

Blackhawk2479 · 2018-02-19T17:24:56+00:00

Just tell her you don’t care enough about it for her to apologise and continue not initiating contact.

Stop being a butthurt pussy and stop caring about stupid shit that girls do.

RedSkeller · 2018-02-19T18:45:07+00:00

Tell her you forgot all about the incident and you're good. She won't bother you for attention again.

Droogas · 2018-02-19T16:43:14+00:00

The hard next is becoming a meme. There's got to be some other options.

Title	Girl who wronged me in the past wants to talk and appologize
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Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	February 19, 2018 3:10 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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