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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
"Hey ____. I'm going to the beach Tuesday at 6, Meet me there. Shoot me your number so we can coordinate."
Quick, polarizing, you'll get an instant read on whether she wants to see you again because the onus is now on her to respond with a yes or a no. If she's not into you, she'll make an excuse or just not return your message. On to the next one (if she doesn't suggest an alternate time/place). Polarize. You're interested sexually in her. Don't tiptoe around that. Own it. Saves hours of wasted time. Women want to fuck confident men who know what they want.
If yes, you already got a date, you know she's into you, and you're proven you're not a beta because you took charge and made plans, as in you're going to the beach regardless if she comes or not. Leadership and outcome independence. Completely operating within your own frame.
So, you are inviting her into your cool frame. Her loss if she declines.
Make sense?
It also differentiates you from her 1000 orbiters that softshoe and skirt around the fact they want to fuck her, just in case she doesn't want to, because that would shatter their illusion that being FB friends means something.
Your open ended message relies on her setting the date and situation. You're left with your dick in your hand, waiting on her to maybe someday make a decision.
[–]Gravel_Roads2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is excellent advice. Suggesting something up front and then giving her the option of participating or not, her call, is an excellent demonstration of soft strength ("soft" in this case being used similarly as the use of "soft power" to describe diplomacy.)
+1 upvote
[–]3d_truth0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What to answer when they, who you going with? Because saying your going somewhere sounds like you are going with people.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just you. I leave my chaperone, bodyguards and chauffeur home when I'm out on a date.
[–]Gravel_Roads0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess the honest answer is “I don’t know yet! Still making final plans.” But I’m also a pretty happy introvert, so I honestly would go alone anyway. I mean, if she comes too awesome. But if she doesn’t, no harm no foul.
[–]SirBlazington4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds kind of beta, saying if she has spare time automatically puts whatever she is doing above what you want to do. Plus the other stuff is just extra. Just be direct.
"Hey, going out to ____ tonight. Come out."
[–]cappadocianhawk2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Needy. Tell her who you are and your number, if she found you attractive she will talk to you. The way you wrote that text is a ticket to friendzone.
Read sidebar, at least try to not get oneitis for a girl you don't even fuck.
[–]aspdrm0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I don’t get these kind of questions. It’s one of the easiest things to look up in the sidebar.
[–]the_rock_devil 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
it's clarification to a specific example. the whole point of the sub is to ask questions. what I don't get is why you feel the need to drop by with your two cents. isn't it a TRP principle to let go of something that doesn't directly affect you and let go easily. not only did this question rustle your jimmies it also wasted your time because you chose to take the time to reply. I'm not fucking stupid by the way. I know how to write a txt msg. who knows though...maybe there would be a gem of wisdom that someone who's never commented before finally took the time to voice his opinion. I'm here for conversation.
[–]aspdrm-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Too long, didn’t read. Did you piss your panties princess?
If you’d read the sidebar, you’d know that being direct in everything you do is one of the main principles. In your original post you don’t even ATTEMPT to be direct at all.
So go read it again and come back AFTER you’ve grasped the foundation first.
yeh I pissed my panties. I'll have to get your mum to wash them when I visit her tomorrow.
[–]aspdrm0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Oh, you must! Cant have your peepee be so moist all day. Orrrr, read the sidebar & learn to score young girls instead, virginboy.
haha If only you knew
[–]aspdrm0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know. And it’s obvious to everyone when you post dumbass virgin questions in this sub.
Let this be a lesson for you buddy, and I’ll catch you in a year.
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