Sitting in front of a beautiful girl right now. Help.

RedSkeller · 2018-02-07T21:29:34+00:00

She probably never gets hit on being hot and on the bus

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-02-07T21:57:03+00:00

”Hi, my name is /u/SoulTheorist. What’s your name?”

You’re on the bus. You have exactly nothing to lose.

jb_trp · 2018-02-07T22:05:12+00:00

Stop thinking about how beautiful she is. Stop putting her on a pedestal.

Think about this: Show me a beautiful girl with a boyfriend, and I'll show you a guy who is probably getting tired of putting up with her BS and fucking her. Even really beautiful women fart, have morning breath, get athletes feet, etc.

You need to keep working on yourself where you reach a point of total outcome independence. It shouldn't matter if she's interested in you or not. Your value isn't determined by her wanting you. Your alpha-ness (or lack thereof) isn't determined by her desire for you, although sexual interest flows from alpha (masculine) traits.

Work on yourself. Become the best version of you. This includes lifting, reading, growing, having a mission and a plan. Women aren't a mission, just a bonus level sometimes life unlocks.

Approach her if you want. Accept the fact that her acceptance doesn't mean anything, and that some day your interaction with her will end. My prediction is your interaction with her will end about 60 seconds after talking to her, probably less. And accept the fact that approaching this woman is practice, to just get better at approaching women. If she responds favorably, ask for her number (read: she probably won't). And then learn from the failure.

SirKolbath · 2018-02-07T21:27:54+00:00

You need at least four weeks and probably closer to four months of monk mode.

Ignore this girl. You're not ready to approach. Read the sidebar. Lift, and meditate. Improve yourself. She's already lost.

BestSC86 · 2018-02-07T22:18:34+00:00

Hard to do but step one is quit putting her on a pedestal...you already fuck that up by looking at her

"and let me tell you, I would destroy that shit."

Let me tell something you from experience.....you see, to the dudes who are smashing that girl's pussy she is just another damn girl not some grand holier than God divine being.

How about don't be a chody aggressive pushy douche and just ask a simple question and see where it goes....she is just a person that for all you know is crazy or loony as shit who nobody can stand to be around.

gaxyu · 2018-02-07T23:13:40+00:00

Why do you give that much fucks about it? If you see something that you want, just go for it.

Don't be 10 minutes hamstering about if I can hit this girl up, if I am enough for her, if she is this of a beauty how can I talk to her? The fuck? There are a lot of girls better than her, she is more insecure than what you will ever think and she should be the lucky girl that got to meet you, get girls off the pedestal, AWALT.

You are and always will be the prize so just do approach and shut up your thoughts next time.

EnzoGold · 2018-02-07T21:29:40+00:00

Give up on this girl you already put her on a pedestal. Look at the title you wrote. SMH

OracleofFl · 2018-02-07T22:19:38+00:00

"I saw you get hit on by that guy while we were waiting. I had to hold back my laughter...you handled it very well"

Title	Sitting in front of a beautiful girl right now. Help.
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Date	February 7, 2018 9:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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