Should I spend my time on her or is she a waste of time ?

quicklogaccount · 2018-02-01T12:59:56+00:00

If she's not into texting and offered you a rescheduling, you're not wasting your time. She's just busy, either with her shit or with 60 cocks on the side, who cares.

In the meantime I have no other girls.

That's your problem right there. You FEEL you're investing or feel like investing time on her when she's really not asking you that. Add another one to the basket and your issues will solve themselves.

fnordsnord · 2018-02-01T15:05:06+00:00

Wait a week, text her for a meetup.

Odds are, she will make excuses. She is not attracted to you.

PrepositionalChi · 2018-02-01T14:28:41+00:00

If she replies after 3-4 hours, you should do the same, if not longer than her. Otherwise you come across as desperate and don't have impulse control.

BestSC86 · 2018-02-01T16:25:21+00:00

What time are you wasting?

Dudes say this when what they really mean is they are afraid of being rejected.

You need to work on reducing your level of committment\investment in any of women you are gaming....if you had 10 women you were invested and this one said "I am busy this weekend how about we do something next week...." then you would be that is fine.....until next week and see if she was open then.

But because you are jumping right intoi 100% investment toward this girl without her giving you any reason to be so, you are going to spend the next week obsessing over whether YOUR investment is going to pan out...the girl has invested shit in you yet so she will not think about you at all....of course, this over early investment will blow up the interaction when\if you do actually meet because again you will be needy because of all the time you have spent obsessing over her.

Stop getting overly invested with numbers\chicks until they have given you a reason to be so invested....dates\fucking you\relationship.

Title	Should I spend my time on her or is she a waste of time ?
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Date	February 1, 2018 12:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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