Shes amazing but the sex is mediocre. How to fix?

PreOrgasmGroanLness · 2017-12-21T17:56:58+00:00

She doesn't want to improve your (couple) sex life, therefore she needs to be replaced with someone who will

I don't see the point to put up with someone who doesn't fit my needs. I will never understand people who write "She's amazing, but sex sucks". I see this "problem" on askTRP or some relationship boards couple times a week.

NO.

She is NOT amazing.

If she were, your sex life would be amazing. But it's not! Coz she's not amazing in bed and she doesn't want to become amazing! Even if sex sucked, but she was willing to improve, you wouldn't be posting a wall of text here on how the problem is unfixable, which I didn't care to read coz I don't want too much cringe in my life right now.

Stop being delusional. It's akin to saying "He's a wonderful investor, but he spends his whole money on drugs". Are you fucking kidding me?

Are you fucking kidding me?

Either set your standards on how patient you can be then learn how to teach her sex, or swap her

McVaghunter · 2017-12-21T17:58:59+00:00

Shes 30 and has a LOW n-count

319Skew · 2017-12-21T18:03:00+00:00

Jesus Christ.

Short answer: Next

Long answer: She's in control. The sex is on her terms. You give her a relationship and she doesn't give you the sex you want and crave. I was married to that. Went from crazy sex that left me sore for days to the obligated lack luster sex session or BJ to keep me happy. You're either going to cheat, become a bluepill angry individual or leave. Feel free to pick which one you want. I, and most of the community, believe that sex is a pivotal part of the relationship if not the sole part of it. You give up potential partners and she gives you a good reason to stay. You're holding up your end of the bargain and she's not. I say use this time to focus on getting your SMV up. Stop coercing any form of sex. Decline the ONE thing she really has over you and then see how she reacts. I did that for a month once as an experiment when I was married. She was so worried that I found someone else that she practically raped me. All these excuses about what she couldn't do evaporated when she felt a really real fear of loss.

dylanrockz2002 · 2017-12-21T21:42:11+00:00

TLDR mate. If you send her my way I could change up her attitude real fast because my todger is 16 cm and I know how to please a piece of flap.

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2017-12-21T18:25:09+00:00

“Everything is great except the sex...”

Perhaps you belong in deadbedrooms sub instead.

OR, get a new woman. She’s broken and won’t fix herself for you.

Title	Shes amazing but the sex is mediocre. How to fix?
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Date	December 21, 2017 5:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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