Don't want to fuck this up. Need advice.

BewareTheOldMan · 2017-10-02T19:00:20+00:00

I concur with [Commenter jb_trp]...you are OVERTHINKING this and will ABSOLUTELY, UNDOUBTEDLY screw the pooch on this situation because...desperation and lack of abundance mentality. This girl is no more special than any other girl - just different in characteristics, traits, and maybe personality, but NOT better than the others.

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jb_trp · 2017-10-02T18:13:23+00:00

Sheesh, dude. You are putting in way too much thought into this... So much that we can almost guarantee you'll fuck it up.

At some point you just have to stop caring. Yes, she's good looking, but you have to care less whether she fucks you or not. Because when you reach that point is when you have abundance mentality and no matter what, you win. And she has to believe that she should hook up with you, because that's just want chicks do when they're with you (preselection). And it's a very subtle thing.

Do what you do with every girl: Make plans with her where you can be alone and sex/romance/whatever can happen. If she's interested, she'll say yes, if she's not, she might play games or not give you a clear answer, but you just walk away and approach other girls. Don't chase. Ideally, she should be chasing you a little, and when she reaches out to you, you make plans. But really, you have to initiate that stuff to give her a taste.

[deleted] · 2017-10-02T18:28:32+00:00

Stop.

TheBlackAlistar · 2017-10-02T18:28:40+00:00

clearly you don't have any women in your life if you care this much about this one.. You wouldn't give a fuck what happens if you had 3 other girls lined up to fuck at any time.

MONEYCASHSHOES · 2017-10-02T18:50:56+00:00

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Title	Don't want to fuck this up. Need advice.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	October 2, 2017 5:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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