LTR (who fucked up by sexting a few months back) agreed to be my slave to prove herself.

fakeplastictrees87 · 2017-09-22T13:52:14+00:00

Break up with her

Seek counseling

Stop being a fucking weirdo

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-22T14:56:02+00:00

Secretly demote her to plate status
Have her be your slave
Start seeing other girls

You can never forgive cheating of any kind. Shes not relationship material. Dump her or demote to plate. All that fake shit shes doing now is only valid in the moment, it won't change the fact that she's a cheater.

gerend24 · 2017-09-22T14:14:00+00:00

LMFAO

is this her

https://imgur.com/a/dGpiY

quicklogaccount · 2017-09-22T17:21:37+00:00

Congrats bro.

Your 38yo (is that it?) girlfriend sexted a dude, you became a wreck and now she's enabling such deep creepy and screwed up behaviors on your side she'll pretty much own you forever. You'll get yourself used to being so fucking unattractive because of being fucking needy and insecure you'll never get pussy elsewhere again.

It'll work out nice for her. Either she's pretty mindfucked to undergo shit like that or she has a plan. I'd bet on her being aware that by agreeing to crap like that she'll own you forever.
Then once you're pretty owned, maybe after you give her those baaaabies, she'll get to fuck that guy properly, he should be closer to her age and on top of HIS smv, he'll make good use of whatever sex drive she has left. And you know the deal, she'll be already doing something immoral just to meet him, he'll get the whole AMA thing.

Well. That put, you're being an idiot with the punishment thing. What should a punishment accomplish? Teach the person something, right?
You're not teaching her shit. Maybe with the essay, but even that will be based on her own reflections. She's a girl, you can read all about how she sees commitment on the sidebar.
The other shit is just pestering, you're not going even CLOSE to causing enough pain and hard to traumatize her away from doing it. Shit you'd need to do to actually accomplish that is probably illegal.

Now, she could do shit to mitigate what she did. Mend what she has broken. But it doesn't look like you're too worried about it.
It's pretty impossible to do it though. What the fuck can she do for you to rely on her to be the sole person in the planet to validate you as a sexual being again? If you give her the babies she'll be validated, but it doesn't work like that for you.

Wanna try something that might work?
Have her over, tell her what the fuck happened, so she has some clue on what she's handling.
"I've forcefully made you the only woman on the planet that could give me something I need, which is being validated as a sexual person. When I felt threatened on that front I shared my concerns with you and your answer was 'you're naive'. This broke any trust I had in your capacity of fulfilling that essential role and now, apart from my mother, you're probably the only woman in the world that can't give me that."
"I don't know if there's a way to fix that but I'm certainly not going to make myself miserable to try, I'm not the one that broke it, I'm not suffering to put it back together. So I'm feeling free to get what I need from other women, but I'll remain open to you if you're willing to try."

Title	LTR (who fucked up by sexting a few months back) agreed to be my slave to prove herself.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	September 22, 2017 1:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/71r2wb/ltr_who_fucked_up_by_sexting_a_few_months_back/
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