I'm 23, met up with this 26 year old Korean girl who speaks fluent English, but with a strong accent. Arranged first date through OkCupid, basically 'matched' with each other and after one intro message I asked for her number and we agreed to meet for drinks.

We met at 6pm and early on I brought up my evening plans saying I had a birthday to attend so had an escape route. Pretty boring date, but served a purpose of getting my head back in the game and warming up for my evening plans with a few beers. Walked her to the train station and thought 'why not' and closed the date off with a bit of lip wrestling and agreed on grabbing some food the following weekend.

Second date is dull again (one way conversations), but enjoy some decent Italian food and wine. I strategically chose a place near to my flat so after the meal we go for a 'walk' to a cocktail bar I know which is a stones throw from my flat. We go Dutch on the cocktails (as with everything else) and then I suggest showing her my pad to which she says let's get some fresh air.

We stroll around some nearby church grounds for a bit and find a bench, cue smooching and general chit-chat before I suggest walking her back to the station. She declines and then starts this whole hamstering of having not been in a situation like this before. She claims to have only started drinking a year ago when she moved to London from Korea and before then having spent all her time either studying at boarding school, Uni or working. However, the small amount of dread game I run about walking her to the station and calling it a night seems to work and before I know it she's in my flat. We put on a film which neither of us watch and before I know it I have her topless etc, but every now and again she pulls away and says how nervous she is. When this happens I say it's fine and start watching the film before she throws herself at me again. Then she explains the reason that she is so nervous is because she is a'virgin'. She and her ex had tried a few times, but never successfully(?). I tell her it's fine and I'll go slow etc and continue to have really mediocre sex. Shortly afterwards my housemate arrives home and I use him as an excuse to finally bring the night to a close and escape the awkward situation that will inevitably occur the next morning.

Walk her to the station, kiss her goodbye and tell her to text me when home so I know she's made it home safely. Which she does and I don't reply and haven't done so yet. This was Saturday night. I went out the following evening for the World Cup and pulled a random trollop as I was feeling like I had my mojo back (when in reality I just knocked off some low hanging fruit).

Just wondering what you guys thought about the virgin situation and whether I should spin her for a while? In all honesty she's barely a 6/10 and feel my time would be spent better hanging out with friends. I would definitely invite her to nights out at clubs so I have a guaranteed lay, but she says clubbing isn't her thing.