[22F] I want to give my best years to the right man, not spend them looking for him (dating advice).

EpicLevelCheater · 2017-07-27T23:21:08+00:00

Your question is better asked over at RedPillWomen. AskTRP is for male interests and questions.

boodie1961 · 2017-07-27T22:22:56+00:00

Men of value are eager to learn and seek enriching experiences (art, music, theatre, travelling, photography, languages ...). Find something that interests you for real and there you might find Mr Right. Good luck

SkorchZang · 2017-07-27T22:26:06+00:00

couldn't seem to find the type of guy I need.

Using masculine strategies & perhaps even reading TRP is likely to mess you up. By this I mean less sexually attractive, you will start putting men off without knowing it. I once read an interesting historical vignette, claiming that in ancient India, there were certain "man management" arts that were women only, including how to make your man do anything you want by changing what he eats, using certain perfumes, dancing, singing, and of course sexual intimacy. The women had the ability by law to drag away and behead any man who somehow ended up learning these forbidden female arts.

Perhaps with TRP's popularity we need something of similar ilk, and behead you at the young age of 22, for other women's own good.

So what would you do as a woman? The complementary female strategy to the male pattern of "finding the right girl" would be to imagine yourself as a flower of some kind, a blossom. Lots of bees flying around, even more useless gadflies, but you want to draw in the best bee. Start by thinking long and hard about where the best bees (of the type you want) might be hanging out/working/playing. Then you insert yourself there by any means necessary, and (crucially) make no effort to go after any of them. Blossom out, put out scents, smiles, hair twirls and innocent blushes, draw them in and take your pick from the full list of applicants.

The best thing you can do for yourself as a woman is to forget your 11 point list, regarding the "right man". Tear it up and throw it away. Smile a cheeky girl smile, and surrender to what may. This is contrary to TRP; but because you're a woman, this is the BEST strategy for you by far. Only this way will you allow "the right guy" to happen in your life, and it will appear random. Gives the blossom something to smile about, as she swallows that delicious bee who thinks he's found "the one".

savagedealer · 2017-07-27T22:16:33+00:00

Until you can tell the difference between someone faking being able to emotionally connect with you vs actually understanding a woman's emotional needs your shit outta luck . Best you can hope for is a good guy with money who kind of gets it

All_Ads_Deceive · 2017-07-28T00:14:29+00:00

No "right man" will settle down with you. You're a slut who posts online looking for bdsm daddies

You can tie down a beta tho. If you were really a "good girl" you'd have an N count of 1 and still be dating your high school sweetheart.

Retspihi · 2017-07-27T22:04:38+00:00

By dating a man you like and making him wait 2-3 months for sex. He must have the same values of you.

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