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[–]DiggerClam9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha. I know you must feel like shit and I'm pretty sure you know where you went wrong, but damn that was a hilerious read.
That's sometime I could see myself doing back in the day.
Perfect description of what bitches do though. Need validation, send nudes, get validation, flush you down the toilet.
Don't give validation without getting what you want first.
Thiiiirsty
[–]listen_more points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You entered her frame by asking to join in on her plans. Then you seemed so desperate to see her that you sacrificed your whole day... then you got mad and told her off because you felt entitled to have your turn with her?
Dude fuck this girl: stop responding, hard next her, continue to work on yourself and practice not giving a fuck about seeing girls or not because you're just doing you...
[–]IvankasBabyDaddy points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Dead on with this. Desperation & entitlement combo is a huge flaw in my game. One step forward two steps back.
[–]mrHappyPotatoe1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Read the sidebar books. Really. I know you havent read any of them yet.
[–]1walawalawa4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You know where you went wrong. I'll share my experience and hopefully you can learn from it.
Girl I'm gaming, I went out with twice, k-closed first time, second time she came over, we made dinner, made out...but she had LMR.
She went away on a 10 day holiday. When she returned she said she was jet lagged--typical ping text.
I reply: "Hey little spoon, if you promise to stay awake, lets meet for drinks, late tonite, or sunset cocktails wed/thu."
She responds a day later....with a photo...or Haagen Daz ice cream; "They have a new flavor".
Now...a few things. 1) she's playing stupid games of either wanting me to chase or 2) she doesn't want to meet up or is confused or some stupid girl shit.
The pre-game/Pre Red Pill me would have responded. I didn't...and won't unless and until she responds on a time on my drinks offer.
Don't always be so available in future. When you feel yourself caving into thirsty desperation...stop. Walk around the block.
[–]qitjch0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just out of curiosity, did she ever reply to your proposal or did you just end up nexting her?
[–]1walawalawa0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I texted her Saturday. She sent the silly ice cream photo Sunday.
This girl is young, very cute, has tons of orbiters. I'm older, and she gets what that's all about. Despite her age, she's switched on but plays dumb because it works on guys. They chase.
But when you watch what they do not what they say you notice something most Blue Pill guys don't.
It would be very easy to blow me off..."Sorry busy hahahaha".
But note the way I asked her: Totally IDGAF mentality: "Hey spoon...if you promise to stay awake..."
So she hasn't responded because her hamster is spinning out of control: "OMG, older guy asking me out....omg I kind of like this but OMG he's not like those silly boys..." so she throws out beta bait...I don't respond.
I'll let you know how this turns out. I'm confident she'll find a way to make some plausible deniability out of this.
I dj this weekend and she sometimes does the door. So this would be a perfect excuse to sort of be there and then kind of hang around and wait for a "Let's go..." invite.
Girls who aren't interested blow you off quickly or totally ignore you. The ones who have some interest but aren't used to being gamed...try every trick in the book to self-sabotage....because that's in their nature to weed out the beta losers.
[–]ylod70 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope this is a lesson learned.
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