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[–]Officer_Dick_Johnson1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look... She might be genuinely sick... She might be bullshiting you. It doesn't matter. You should not care.
Get talking with a few more chicks and you will stop caring about her... And you will only remember her when she finally figures her shit out and contacts you.
[–]JuanLesPins0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's tinder! You did good going for the date but maybe took too long. She flaked on you once, you went for the second she declined before you could ask. I would stop contact and go for other fish.
If she contacts tell her to come up with a date or shut up.
[–]PeteyG891 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I Agree, its only Tinder. Shes actually cousins with a girl who I went to school with, who dated my best friend and that didnt end well with our whole group. I just feel someone spilled some shit on me and now all of the sudden ghost. Again this is probably me beta paranoid as fuck.
[–]quicklogaccount0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
basically shutting me down before I can ask her weekend plans?
Seems like it.
Say feel better (probably beta move)
Why beta? Not beta man. Beta is "I'm willing to waste efforts to buy myself a shot with you".
Basically my question is, Hard next?
Nope. Hard next is for when you're disrespected (i.e. stood up, "put in the line" for later, met with dismissive answers...) or rejected. Just hit her up with "let me know when you're up" and leave it there. Re engage again if you feel like it, or just don't. Maybe she will.
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