Too much TRP ideology? Should I give up a great LTR just because of jealousy of sexual past?

askmrcia · 2017-01-27T21:17:10+00:00

Yes, yes, I know oneitis.

LOL!! Good.

But to answer your question, I think it was stupid of you to break up with girl A over that reason. So yea if you really want her, then go for it.

Here's a thought process that I come to when it comes to girls sleeping with more guys then me or simply not being a virgin. I played football. In college we practiced on this field that had toads, rat turds, spit, and any other kind of insects you could think of.

I can't tell you how many times my mouth piece fell on this dirty ass field and I would pick that mouth piece up and stick it right in my mouth. So I just had to make sure I cleaned my mouth out later.

Where I'm getting at is if you think your girl is dirty because some guy was all up in her just imagine how dirty the average person really is? We shake guys hands. Those same hands are what guys used to masturbate. Things like that.

Get my point? So I would not worry about her being a virgin.

I'm saying all this as a person who no longer believes in LTRs. I just don't. Most girls that screwed me over sounds just like your Girl A.

Now I would be VERY careful in not falling to hard for either girl. But whatever you do I wish you luck.

EGOtyst · 2017-01-27T23:12:30+00:00

Look, TRP is a collection of heuristics and ideas. It is not a blueprint. Trying to use it like one is autistic.

Have as much fun as you can for as long as you can have it. Get back with Girl A. But, just remember, women are just people. The likelihood of her cheating on you is not non-zero. Realize that.

N=1 is not too high. I mean, consider this: If N=1 is too high, you literally just ruined the life of Girl B.

JuanLesPins · 2017-01-27T23:20:36+00:00

I was in a LTR relationship with a great girl (call her girl A). We had sex frequently, and the sex was great. Our personalities matched and she is fun to hang out with.

Good! What's the problem?!

I decided I didn't want to be in an LTR with someone who wasn't a virgin

You effectively reduced your possible mating pool in 99.999% with this decision. Either that or you are 15...

You had a good thing going and ended it based on that decision, and now ask too much RP thinking? This is not even related to RP, this is completely the opposite... If everyone here found a girl with a N count bellow 2 digits this wouldn't even be a discussion, never mind 1 previous partner.

You need to read, live and learn. I hope you are really young.

Title	Too much TRP ideology? Should I give up a great LTR just because of jealousy of sexual past?
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Date	January 27, 2017 9:06 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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