LTR wants to stick her finger in my ass

abdada · 2017-01-23T20:39:56+00:00

Some guys really really like prostate massages and can do it in an alpha way.

I'm not into it but I have a hairy ass.

[deleted] · 2017-01-23T20:42:07+00:00

I say don't knock it till you try it.

Worst case scenario, you can be that guy to tell the story how a girl put her finger up your ass, and have a laugh with the boys, while a bunch of guys here tell you how unbelievable your life is, and call you a troll.

Best case, turns out to be fucking awesome, and you can post on how guys should try it out, if the opportunity presents itself.

MrOrangeXD · 2017-01-23T20:44:58+00:00

How long have you guys been together?

neko_1246 · 2017-01-23T20:53:13+00:00

Uhm.....honestly I can't tell you what the right move would be here. I think that if when you two first started having sex and you were all like "lick my butt hole bitch, fuck yeeeahhh" that'd be dominant and would fall in line with game theory. That this is something you're unsure about is what inherently doesn't align with being the classic 'alpha' picture. So the real problem is that you don't know if you're down with trying this. However, this sounds like its straight up something that just turns her on. Like.....I like getting tied up. Somehow, I've managed to make my girl do that in a way where I'm still dominant. Like she'll tie me up, I'll call her a bitch, tell her what to do to me, call her my slave (hahahhaaa) etc.etc. while I'm the one being tied up, the classically submissive role. And eventually I'll untie the knots and actually dominate her. But all of that is something I knew I liked beforehand. You're unsure and hesitant about your butt. And that's completely understandable, I was too. I'm just trying to show that all you really need to be doing is be comfortable with whats going on and lead the situation in a dominant manner. So in that respect it really doesn't matter that she wants to lick your ass or put her finger up your butt it matters how you let her do that and if you turn out to even like it. And surprise surprise, it feels good and you've been missing out.

If you wanna take it a little slow, start by making her lick your balls while you jack off on her face (or have her jack you off if she's any good at it). Having her do this while your standing and she's on her knees makes it more dominant. Grab a fistful of hair and push her face into your crotch every now and then, it's soo psychologically demeaning its great. Then let her play with your butt from there, it'll warm that area up and keeps her in a submissive role.

Really the key here is that your leading. You're not "letting" her do anything, you're making her do it. That she asked you for permission is just icing on the cake. "Master can I *pleeeeaaase lick you..." Make her say that before you make her do it, and call her your little slut. Does that sound demeaning as a man?

thaway13579 · 2017-01-23T20:54:43+00:00

If you don't want her to do it, then tell her not to do it. If you want to experiment with it, then get a little drunk and go for it. Probably won't change the dominance balance in your relationship unless you cry.

FvckYourSafeSpace · Mon Jan 23 21:33:21 2017 UTC

it sounds like you have a mental problem with your masculinity which will make it unpleasant. the fact that you're on here questioning it tells that pretty clearly. if you are mentally ok with it though, it is highly pleasurable but may make you pop off in seconds.

it's also a good technique if you are too many nuts deep to stay fully hard or pop off, it will make that happen. but if you have this mental block about 'hey does this make me queer?' it's not going to be pleasant, ever.

Title	LTR wants to stick her finger in my ass
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	January 23, 2017 8:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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