How to get over your ex

hiddenonion · 2017-01-15T11:07:20+00:00

Just keep reminding yourself of all the reasons it didnt work out. Remind yourself of her faults. Get out and do things. Start not giving a fuck, start working on yourself

thor_away92 · 2017-01-15T14:12:07+00:00

Well for starters stop letting the thought of her leave your mouth.

ddiogenesofsinope · 2017-01-15T15:10:37+00:00

It's such a cliché but time buddy. It takes a while to start seeing it but she's not so perfect as you think.

A good movie to watch that helped me is 500 days of summer. You come to grow and realise that all of those moments you thought were great may not have been so great o with hindsight

In the meantime focus on the big three: money (career), lifting and fun.

And whatever you do, take it from someone with experience in this, walk away and keep walking from her. You will miss so many problems by doing that....

301niko · 2017-01-15T15:16:15+00:00

Was she a virgin? Probably not. She was just another fish that got hooked. Bitches come and go. Don't invest so much emotion, money and time in future if you have problems with break ups.

[deleted] · 2017-01-15T16:24:33+00:00

Hey man my redhead ex tried to kill me so at least you've got that going for you, those bitches are crazy man hi5 tho the pussy is good

tldr: Give it time, that's the only thing that can really help that kind of shit

Thizzlebot · 2017-01-15T19:09:08+00:00

Why don't you have any friends? You mentioned you are still in school, this is unacceptable. Go be social and make connections with people and you won't get so butthurt when some broad doesn't want to bang you anymore. As always fine other things to occupy your time: gym, hobbies, etc.

confused_sb · 2017-01-15T22:33:12+00:00

You need anger in your life. This will serve as your motivation to improve yourself until discipline takes over. Then you will be drowning in better pussy.

The redhead you dated? Since she dumped your sorry ass she went and fucked a guy already. Let him nail her ass for 30min and cream inside her, and the while never giving a thought of you. Face it, it's over. She's NEVER coming back.

Flooopo · 2017-01-15T16:46:51+00:00

You've just been given a gift and have no idea. You don't want to rely on anyone as much as you relied on her. You only have yourself to take care of, so start doing that. Let the pain of losing her consume you for a bit, but you will move on. Don't contact her. Focus on school, go to the gym, be selfish. Do the things you've wanted to do but have been too scared to do. You will move on from her, but it'll be so much easier if you're working on yourself at the same time.

Don't let some girl dictate your happiness (whether in or out of a relationship). Only you can do that for yourself.

Title	How to get over your ex
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	January 15, 2017 10:08 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5o3957/how_to_get_over_your_ex/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-to-get-over-your-ex.182052 https://theredarchive.com/post/182052

Comments