I hate people and it's turning me into a very, very lonely man.

TheInkerman · 2016-12-13T23:49:26+00:00

Aww poor you, don't worry, you're a special snowflake! Someone will come and love you!

Don't give us this "fucked beyond repaid" wimpy 'woe-is-me' bullshit. If you want a pity parade you can fuck off right now.

Your problem is that you believe you have no value, and hence for all intents and purposes you don't.

You could be a millionaire Adonis celebrity, but you would still have no value because you believe you don't have value. Your root issue is internal.

Essentially speaking you believe you had no value as a teenager, and if your description of yourself at that time is accurate, that's probably the case. The issue is that you made no attempt to increase your value (to yourself or others), instead you wallowed in porn and video games (an increasingly common issue of varying severity). This perceived (and hence, actual) lack of value has persisted into your adulthood.

How do you change that? Become the person you want to be. The world doesn't owe you shit, and it isn't going to give it to you. Assess the real, actionable things that you want to do with your life and then go out and take steps to achieve them. Have goals, long and short term, and work towards them.

Men aren't just 'made' good, or valuable, or worth a dam (one of the big differences between men and women). They work to make themselves that way. You, according to your own assessment, aren't worth a dam.

So work to change that. TRP (and other resources) can show you how, but ultimately it is up to you.

SpinPlates · 2016-12-13T23:52:02+00:00

I truely believe that nutritional disciple and exercise are the answer to most mental problems.

Go do some miserable shit like a 3 day primitive camp/hike or ride a bicycle 100 miles in 24 hours and tell me you have the energy to hate people. Weight lifting is great for aesthetics but endurance training will change your mindset.

kieran9323 · 2016-12-13T23:43:05+00:00

People repulse me

your past repulses me as well

king_of_red_alphas · 2016-12-14T06:07:36+00:00

Lol. Everybody is gonna berate you for this but I'd say deep down many (if not most) TRP'ers feel this way.

You're going to get the typical paper alpha tough love advice here that you'd expect. But in reality, step 1 is to find a therapist and start working on small steps to see where you can work on your thought processes.

Buddhism and meditation can help with this as well.

TRP is pretty good for advice on getting laid and improving SMV, but it is so cynical, nihilistic and negative it will likely make your particular situation worse.

batfish55 · 2016-12-14T12:47:48+00:00

I was like that when I was younger. Use the angry. Say whatever you want, whenever you want. Do whatever you want. Because fuck all of you, that's why. Disable every internal filter you have. You might find it's a lot of fun. You might find it polarizes people. They'll love you or hate you, no in between.

It should help with the depression too. You can also try magic mushrooms. Those are great for depression and mellowing you the fuck out, for like a month at a time.

oldredder · 2016-12-15T06:59:46+00:00

This is one of the most refreshing troll posts I've ever read.

I actually learned a lot about 4chan, like what r9k is and the script-bot, etc., and couldn't have fully appreciated the elliot-rodgers implication of r9k and the full-on troll-power presented here without it.

This was actually just about award-winning. It's literally been more than a decade since a troll-post got more than a shaking of the head and nexting.

Well done!

Title	I hate people and it's turning me into a very, very lonely man.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	December 13, 2016 11:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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