How do you approach women if you have a physical disability?

DrTrollMcRedditFace · 2016-12-03T18:56:47+00:00

I have one leg. If your handsome and jacked they usually don't care. Hopefully for your sake you lift. If not, start. This shit is honestly am awesome opener if you can be confident. I usually approach women with a big smirk and say " excuse me miss are you staring at my disability? That's kinda messed up I'm a shark attack victim... you should buy me a drink to make it up to me."

savagedealer · 2016-12-03T19:40:19+00:00

This dude at work was born with the same issue no arm he would tell people he was born that way ... I asked this lady that worked with us if it would make a difference if he just said he lost it in an accident trying to save someone ... she instantly said yes ... make up new stories till you find the ones that work no one needs to know you were born that way because women will assume that if they have kids they might end up the same ... they lie all the time fake hair fake nails fake eye lashes and still talk about they want a real man ... don't feel bad dude that shit will fuck with your head and get you no where . Like the other dudes said lift stay healthy keep reading

[deleted] · 2016-12-03T21:36:16+00:00

Look up this kid. If he can charm an entire nation without the use of his legs you can charm a chick with one hand.

plasticslug · 2016-12-03T23:05:55+00:00

On a pure reproduction level, as a mate searches for a suitable host to bear offspring fundamentally you will be at a disadvantage, symmetry unfortunately is a huge factor, in our evolution in terms of mating. Its going to come down to you, how you handle your self, like others have said make up a story if needed. Look into one of those cool robot looking hands etc. And dont fall into the, i was born this way bs... Its boring.

There are many people worse off with partners, you just need to work that much harder.

ifindshitt · 2016-12-03T22:06:18+00:00

You weren't born without it. It got blown off by Al-Quaeda when you were rescuing a whole family from an IED in Iraq. Now go fuck some bitches.

fuckingfocusgodamnit · 2016-12-04T00:22:50+00:00

Have you tried 'Excuse me could you lend me a hand with something?'. Might be too much. How about 'Who's got one thumb and is about to get your number?'

Regardless you have to find a way to address & make her feel comfortable with it as soon as possible in the interaction. The best way will be something that shows you are comfortable with it. That goes for dates as well as cold approaches. Can you think of a good punchline to 'Wanna know the worst part of dating with one hand?'

[deleted] · 2016-12-03T18:54:08+00:00

I don't think that's an issue at all.

[deleted] · 2016-12-03T18:54:38+00:00

Try online dating

bainbridge_island · 2016-12-03T23:29:00+00:00

You were dealt a lousy hand (pun intended!)

Seriously, most people do not overlook disabilities and they are an instant turn off for many reasons. It will take a special woman to overlook it. Of course, you could date similarly disabled women, but I'm sure you think your are entitled to a perfectly formed HB9.

Good luck.

Title	How do you approach women if you have a physical disability?
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Date	December 3, 2016 6:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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